What makes things funny | Peter McGraw | TEDxBoulder

What makes things funny | Peter McGraw | TEDxBoulder

Translator: Ilze Garda
Reviewer: Maricene Crus In a moment, I’m going to ask you to stand up,
turn to someone you don’t know, and begin tickling that person. (Laughter) Although some of you may find
this request slightly terrifying, (Laughter) many of you are clearly amused. If this is funny, it begs the question,
“What makes things funny?” And answering that question
is important for a few reasons. Humor is pervasive, people of all ages and cultures
experience humor on a daily basis. Humor influences your choices – from the movies and television you watch
to the people you date and mate. And humor – that’s true – (Laughter) and humor is beneficial. It makes you happy, and it helps you cope
with pain, stress, and adversity. Although answering the question
what makes things funny is important, it’s not why I’m here today. Let me explain. A few years ago, I was giving
a talk about moral violations, and I was making the case that moral violations
cause anger and disgust. And I was motivating
that case with an example: a news story about a church
that was raffling off an H2 Hummer SUV to a lucky member of the congregation. (Laughter) But instead of groans, I got laughs, and an astute member
of the audience raised her hand. She said, “Pete, you said
that moral violations cause disgust, and yet we’re laughing. Why?” I wanted to answer the question
of what makes things funny because I didn’t know the answer
to the question what makes things funny. E. B. White says, “Analyzing humor
is like dissecting a frog. Few people are interested,
and the frog dies of it.” (Laughter) Nonetheless, for this purpose, I created
the Humor Research Lab, or HURL. (Laughter) And in the next ten minutes,
I’m going to present a theory of humor, evidence from HURL
that supports the theory, and discuss implications for how
you can have a more humorous life. Let’s start with the theory. Caleb Warren and I
have crafted a theory of humor that we call the Benign Violation Theory. The Benign Violation Theory
integrates existing humor theory and builds on work by Tom Veatch to say that humor occurs when and only when
three conditions are satisfied: a situation is a violation,
a situation is benign, and both of these appraisals
occur simultaneously. Violations are anything that threatens
the way you believe the world ought to be; simply put, something seems wrong. Violations take many forms,
ranging from violations of social norms, such as a TED speaker
asking people to touch each other, to violations of moral norms, such as Keith Richards’ claim
that he snorted, among many other things, his dead father’s ashes. (Laughter) There’s many ways
to make a violation benign; we’ve studied three. One way you make a violation benign is to not be strongly committed
to the violated norm. This explains why a bunch
of non-religious academics may laugh about a church
giving away a Hummer SUV. Another way that a violation can be benign
is if it’s psychologically distant, such as if it occurs to someone else,
happened a long time ago, or just doesn’t seem real. Yet another way that a violation
can seem benign is if there’s some alternative explanation
that somehow makes the violation OK, as occurs in the case
of play fighting and tickling. The Benign Violation Theory predicts that primates laugh
when play fighting or tickling because both are mock attacks or threatening situations
that also seem harmless. The theory also explains,
in addition to what is funny, what is not funny, and distinguishes between
the two meanings of the term “not funny.” Situations that are purely
benign are not funny, there is no threat there, and explains
why you can’t tickle yourself. (Laughter) You can try; it doesn’t work. (Laughter) Situations that are pure violations,
or what we call malign violations, are also not funny. So that creepy guy
who’s kind of sitting close to you, who looks pretty eager to tickle you – (Laughter) There’s nothing OK about that situation. (Laughter) The theory also accounts
for other types of physical humor. Walking down a flight of stairs –
no violation, not funny. Falling down a flight of stairs,
but being unhurt – benign violation, funny. Falling down that flight of stairs
and being badly hurt – malign violation, not funny. (Laughter) Unless it happens to someone else. (Laughter) The theory also explains
why the nerds among us laugh at puns: violations of linguistic norms [This is not a drill.
I repeat. This is not a drill!] that also seem OK. How do you make this not funny? Well, you can remove the violation. You can also make it funny
by removing the thing that makes it OK. This attempt is just confusing. (Laughter) Let’s try another one just for fun; I saw this one on a T-shirt
in Las Vegas recently. [My pen is huge.] (Laughter) Benign violation. How do you make it not funny? Well, you could … (Laughter) just remove the violation,
move the “is” down. (Laughter) How do you make it a malign violation? (Laughter) You really want me to do this? (Laughter) So by now, you can see how the benign violation
has great explanatory power. It explains nervous laughter,
for instance, such as – how at tickling you may laugh,
but it’s unwanted. Because a violation is
a necessary condition for humor, you may experience a negative emotion
in addition to your amusement. We’ve studied this at HURL
with benign moral violations, such as when someone is treated unfairly,
but probably deserves it. [Orange juice $5
Jugo de naranja $4] (Laughter) The American who can’t figure this out can probably afford
to spend the extra dollar. (Laughter) How do you make this not a violation?
You just make the prices equal. How do you make it less funny?
Well, you target the less affluent group. Our participants endorse
more negative emotions and less amusement
in this condition, don’t worry. So you probably can see how both
what is funny and what is not funny is explained by the Benign
Violation Theory. Let’s turn our attention
to how to live a more humorous life. The theory indicates that you should
pay attention to your audience, and it suggests that everybody
has a good sense of humor under the right circumstances. What one person sees as benign,
another sees as a benign violation, and another sees as a malign violation. These folks won’t laugh
at your pedophile joke. Yeah, I was worried about that one. (Laughter) You should also consider the situation. Is the situation a violation?
Then try to make it more benign. Writers, directors and comedians have long advocated for the use
of distance in doing this. Tragedy is when I cut my finger. Comedy is when you walk
into an open sewer and die. (Laughter) Our participants endorse this idea. They say that a friend
falling into an open sewer is less funny than a stranger. They also find this violation funnier
when perceived from a far distance than a close distance. (Disgusted laughter) We call this the Silverman strategy. The comedian Sarah Silverman transforms
violations into benign violations by making racial and ethnic jokes in a cute, non-serious,
non-threatening way. But not all violations would be made
funnier by making them more distant. Although Mark Twain said
that humor is tragedy plus time, no one says humor
is a mild misstep plus time. And our participants seem to indicate that bringing some mild violations
closer makes them funnier, so stumbling on a curb is funnier
when it happens to your friend than when it happens to a stranger. This is evidenced by the saying,
“You had to be there.” (Laughter) And moreover, our participants find this mild violation
funnier when perceived up close than from a far perspective. We call this the Seinfeld strategy. Seinfeld transforms normal
everyday situations into benign violations by highlighting what is wrong with them. We finally suggest you consider yourself. Are you like Sarah Silverman,
brash over the top? Soften the situation,
soften the violations. If you are like Seinfeld though,
more reserved and mild-mannered, concentrate on creating
these violations, highlighting them. So you probably by now have figured out I’m not going to ask you
to touch each other, but how did I know
that proposition would be funny? Well, first I started with a violation. It’s clearly wrong to ask you to do that;
it violates a host of norms. But I had to know
that this was going to be benign. Well, first I considered you. I figured you’re a pretty
open-minded group, you’re here to learn new things,
experience new things, OK. I also created distance: I told you this was going to be
in the future, not in the present. And lastly, there is
an alternative interpretation: I am giving a talk about humor, and so it could make sense
to ask you to do this. In short, to make things funny,
you want to create a benign violation. That’s easier said than done, however. Erma Bombeck said that there’s a thin line
between laughter and pain, comedy and tragedy, and humor and hurt. Thank you. (Applause)

Comments (100)

  1. Before buying on gearbest, know that it's thieves.
    They do not repay,
    on google search for "Thieves Gearbest".

  2. CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHY MEMES ARE FUNNY BRUH(the memes without violation)

  3. You know what's funny?


  4. Why did they get someone so unfunny to talk about funny..,all that talk of benign and malign violations made everyone confused and even less funnier of person…humor really is not that complicated

  5. This is my favorite video, more like it over here!

  6. Made explaining a joke funny.

  7. this is totally unfunny and or interesting

  8. does this mean you can't make something funny without someone or something is being hurt?

  9. He forgot to mention the true secret to comedy

  10. You can tickle yourself if you're ticklish enough. Trust me, I know.

  11. I don't get what's so funny about a church raffling off an SUV.

  12. id like to add upon this theory and rename it spontaneous benign violation theory, video on that soon

  13. the status of an un funny person is perpetrated in their lack of knowing and understanding agreed upon human norms

  14. further explaining violations. spontaneous actions in humorous events being a violation of an expected outcome. thus comes irony. a twist of events in given scenario resulting in an outcome completely opposite of what ought to happen

  15. To be honest I don't really follow this theory. He's calling the photo of a drill a 'violation' …. It's not. Just like a million other jokes that dont involve violations. What's he on about.

  16. This is why ppl consider me funny

  17. Don't you hate it when a sentence doesn't end the way you refrigerator?

  18. I can tickle myself… wtf?

  19. This guy might think he knows comedy… I've been doing stand up for many years and my favs are guys like Joe Rogan, Lenny Bruce etc. Punch you in the face humor! lol

  20. "You can laugh about EVERYTHING, but just not with everyone" (Pierre Desproges, French humorist)

  21. Scientific genetic studies tend to say (if i'm not wrong) that laughter is an ancestral form of protecting oneself.
    See how chimps' laughter is a bit different from ours..

  22. Someone really managed to dissect and analyse "humour" and what's more, it was funny as well! So the frog was not killed. Certainly benign!

  23. "A joke is an epigram on the death of a feeling" Friedrich Nietszche . If you understand this then you understand what humour is.

  24. i didn't know Peyton Manning could figure all this out

  25. I think there is a broader definition: dysfunction is funny

  26. Add a public comment…

  27. Humour research lab omg and I struggle finding a job

  28. Excellent talk. It starts a little unsteady, but just keep watching.

  29. You know what’s really funny – Princeton Reunion Weekend….

  30. Did somebody get a matress stolen ?? I bet somebody is sleeping closer, to the floor tonight


  32. Very true humor really helps everybody truly smile and get through a tough day and when you ask someone how are you it becomes sincere 5 star information . And i am going to order larg pens to hand out that say my pen is Huge with my business logo! To give out 🙂

  33. Ticklishness is a pain response.

  34. Humor is a funny business

  35. That’s not what “begs the question” means

  36. D'ya know what's funny? I'm not sure if it's a benign violation but..

    Read more

  37. …..damn…he is bad and shallow

  38. This is funny because he wants to explain humor, yet he's really not funny.

  39. Are there any books you recommend? I would like to be funny. I was going to say funnier, but that would imply I am a bit funny already :/

  40. Good, but that does not account for all things that are found humorous.

  41. SJW's see the whole world and men as malign violations.

  42. Best TEDx talk ever.

  43. I made someone watch this and they told me I was wasting my life away

  44. a canned laugh track obviously makes things funny, thats the only explanation as to how the big bang became so popular

  45. This guy really knows how to be boring.

  46. Sitcoms and Disney shows today. Say one thing, then immediately say the opposite with canned laugh track.

  47. Bravo, encore encore

  48. This does not explain why we find something funny i.e. why do we find benign violations funny?

  49. i can tickle myself

  50. Humor is like a mutated infection: sometimes its airbourne, sometime its not. Its hard to pend down.

  51. next time speak English please

  52. like to literally die

  53. His cuffs are a violation

  54. Your shining head is obstructing the view of the pilots please turn it off!

  55. My life is a Joke

  56. This is clearly one of the greatest TEDx Talks, but then most of the people who wanted to watch it and invariably commented are sad people

  57. Sarah Silverman is offensive. Maybe she has gotten more vile in more recent years. THIS is why you never go on the record to support a celeb or polico.

  58. Yeah but my pen is bigger than yours!

  59. I’ve learned why some things are funny. I can use this. Friends and family appreciate his talk!!

  60. Laughter: the sheer convulsive relief experienced upon learning that the universe is free from order.

  61. We love Peter McGraw and his Benign Violation Theory! A simple way to remember this theory is "if laughing at this is wrong, why does it feel so right?"

  62. I laughed quite hard at how he got overly exited in a somewhat stereotypical "nerdy" way at 7:19. Then i started to analyze it according to his own theory. Was this situation funny because his awkward grinning was a "break" or social norm? Is awkwardness funny because it deviates from the norm and is it therefore a "violation"?

  63. Comedy is a dark thing.

  64. Am I the only one that didn’t find him funny?

  65. The moment he said start tickling, i was done with the video 😂

  66. One of my brothers friends was really funny was driving us somewhere. He said, "Ya know, I want to go out like my grandpa, in my sleep." Which is sad but okay. But then he said. "And not like the people who were in the car. " I hope not to offend anyone but I just wanted to share this.

  67. I make a point to surround myself with friends who have no "off-limits" topics for joke-making.

    Some of them are minorities, and those are my favorite.

  68. So violations in Malign, Benign, and Unfamiliar rules of humor block jokes from being interpreted as funny.

    BUM-symmetry theory.

    Edit: Or if you're not familiar with Physics BSM: BM-symmetry. Apologies for the BS violation.

  69. 7:14 No Love Deep Web.

  70. I read laughing has to do with learning and being surprised. That's why once you know a joke or know what's going to happen it's not as funny.

  71. This will certainly makes me more considerate of others while cracking jokes . Thank you so much

  72. Well… I should know something about that subject. My husband hurt his little toe this morning and our 4-year-old was laughing. When dad said: "this is NOT FUNNY", he, of course, laughed even more. On another note: it is somewhat difficult to laugh at the same things if you and your partner are from different countries. This is our case anyway. I find much more things funny than my husband.
    The funny thing is… my husband's sister just broke her toe recently too. Again! Awww! I'm so lucky that I'm not from toe-breaking family. That sucks big toe!

  73. What a great talk! Learned a lot from this. The Michael JR talk on comedy is great too.

  74. tickling a stranger is actually a great idea if you want to die

  75. I can tickle myself.

  76. Go watch Norm macdonald's Albert Fish joke . If you think its the funniest thing you've ever heard then it's a safe bet you understand comedy.

  77. thats why i laughed so hard last friday

  78. Mm, I've been thinking about brandon rogers and my failed jokes the whole talk… he's an interesting guy

  79. sjws should watch this

  80. Legg til offentlig kommentar

  81. this video is over 8 years old and i find it pretty interesting

  82. Wonder what he'd do if nobody laughed in the beginning 😂 took the risk for a high reward, I respect that

  83. Cuz we all know, that the secret to humor is…'explanation''.🙄

  84. i remember his other video ! the red bull

  85. Weird mix between drew brees and Peyton Manning. Am I alone here?

  86. it's depressing how the main joke of the tedtalk made a total of 3 people chuckle.

  87. Humor research lab still did not cover many things like for eg a very old yogic tradition on the benefits of laughing ,,,,,

  88. so what if someone can tickle themselves? and it's because they have a split personality.

  89. this is the best explanation of humour I've seen so far.

    mild violations are funnier when it is closer because mild violations happen to someone we don't know, all the time; therefore they stop being violations and become the norm. Someone out there is mis-stepping and falling, all the time but it doesn't happen around us all the time.

  90. Most humorous thing ever “people you date and mate”

  91. What about the element of surprise? Of the benign violation also making a new unexpected kind of sense?

  92. I watched this whole video without knowing what benign meant

  93. if you can deliver a joke without laughing or smiling, boom

  94. Good points! I will watch it again and again.

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