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How to Improve your English Speaking Skills | Hindi Video on dealing with Inferiority Complex

How to Improve your English Speaking Skills | Hindi Video on dealing with Inferiority Complex


Hello friends, this is Simerjeet Singh, back again with another video in this series, Ask Simerjeet. My main target through this series is that I can answer as much questions as I can on camera which you send through LinkedIn, Facebook, twitter and E-mail. This is my target! I believe many youngsters pose such kinds of questions which also come in the minds of other people as well. And if I can answer those questions successfully, I believe, questions of many other people will also be solved. You can also send us your questions, the E-mail id is shared with you in the description below. And we will be happy to answer them on camera. So let’s start with today’s question which is sent by one of our friends belonging to Kolkata, And he is writing that, “Sir I am a big fan of yours.” So, thank you very much! Thank you very much! It is due to the support of people like yourself. By your support, my Facebook page, YouTube channel and where I am today, is all because of the blessings of my supporters and their support, so thank you! He writes, “Sir I am suffering- ‘suffering’ from heavy mother tongue influence problem! This is the first time I have listened to this kind of a problem. “Heavy mother tongue influence problem suffering” while speaking in English. It is coming subconsciously while speaking and effecting my carrier growth as I have to talk to guys, my company counter parts in the US. Any tip or suggestion that how I can get rid of this issue! My friend, the issue that you have told, I know it’s an issue but you said it with a lot of seriousness I feel like it’s a disease “Mother tongue influence” and you will learn it subconsciously, not consciously because, you have to understand today I want to remove this confusion we had made an another video which was based on improving your communication skills which received much love from your side but the confusion I want to remove is that English is our 2nd language; it is not our mother tongue Therefore, it is clear that whenever you will speak, the influence of your mother tongue will come. It’s not a disease! Yes of course, English trainers and corporate trainers by giving it a name of MTI had made it a big issue That, people have built inferiority complex that if I can’t speak english well, and well means, like Americans and Britishers then I am not good enough! Friend, please listen this carefully If your company has given you this position where you are communicating with your US counterparts That means your company trusts you, believes you on your skills, on your experiences In this, the only thing you are feeling is language competency and this is just a language which you can improve just like anything else in your life. If you work on this, then that will also improve, for sure. And why are you scared of your US counterparts, they are not God right! They are human beings just like you and you have to understand that the day your US counterparts, talk to you in Hindi, as frequently and easily as you can and in the same ascent, Hindi ascent with the same efficiency with which you speak english, then you will be on the same level. But at this moment of time you are doing more hard work, because you are not only capable of speaking your regional language, your Hindi language but you are speaking English as well! So you are actually a lot of steps ahead of your US counterparts as far as the language is concerned. So you should be proud and not be ashamed of it. I will repeat it again that when you’re US counterparts, British counterparts or Australian counterparts speaks Hindi as frequently as you speak English then you will be equal till then, friends, keep this in mind that you are many steps ahead of them. I would like to explore the second side of this. As far as improving english efficiency is concerned, I would like to share 5-6 step plans with you. By which you can improve your English speaking skills by attacking from multiple sides. and keep this mind that the ability to express yourself clearly in English and articulate your ideas, if you are able to express what’s inside your mind so that the others understand. This ability is great! I am not saying that you shouldn’t develop your English speaking skills But I am trying to say that, believe in yourself, remove inferiority complex and side by side make an improvement plan which can be divided into 5-6 steps. No.1 READ Start reading a lot of material in English which will help you like newspapers, magazines, novels, self-help books or whatever you can find. No.2 Write Start writing blogs and if you are posting something on social media then don’t just put a photo there, but also write a description about it So that your mental faculty exercises and you have a better grasp on the use of words of English language. No.3 Watch I want you to watch more stuff especially by native English speaker whose 1st language is English Be it from Australia broadcasting, Canada, New Zealand, Britain, and America. There are news anchors, documentaries, and Netflix series, I want you to watch them. Even a small kid by watching a cartoon series named Peppa Pig, are picking up British english so well! Psychologist refers it as vicarious learning. So, vicarious learning is your ability to learn just by observing others. So make a curriculum for yourself that I have to watch this and this and that’s going to helps you a lot. No.4, my friends is, Listen Download audiobooks, there are so many apps available. If you are commuting daily then in your smartphones or headphones, go with some stuff which is said by a native speakers in English, and listen to that carefully. Do not waste your time while you are travelling. Have some material available with you and listen to as much stuff as you can by the speakers which subconsciously improve your vocabulary, improve your diction, improves the type of words to be used in a context. This reminds me of a great example. I attended a program in IIM Lucknow which included a series on communication and in that series, my professor, who is now head of IIM Indoor, if I am not wrong, He shared a perfect example with us that a single sentence like “The door is open”, and if we use this sentence in different context, the meaning of the sentence changes! Suppose, after the lecture of a professor ends, a student approaches and says, ” Sir, I want to become an IAS Officer.” and the Professor replies, “Sure, of course you can do it, The door is open.” So here the door is open means that the opportunities are open. Suppose it’s a month of January, although it is February and it’s freezing cold, and a student attending the same lecture of the same professor, is feeling very cold and he approaches the professor and says, “Sir today is very cold, please do something!” And the professor uses the exactly same words which are, “Son the door is open” that means, the door is open and the cold breeze is coming in, so close it. Same set of words, same location but the meaning changed widely. Third Let’s say the same classroom, the same professor, the same student gives feedback to his sir after the session, “Sir I don’t like your lecture, I am not feeling good! The professor can use the same set of words,once again, which is “The door is open” Which means, son, if you don’t want to attend the lecture, you can go outside. Now, you see One set of words, one sentence, when used in different context, its meaning changes. and this thing is going to improve in you by listening. So, let me just do a quick recap. No.1 Formulate a reading plan, right! Magazines, Newspapers, Journals avoid reading newspapers, especially the 1st page as it includes with a lot of negative things going across the world which is a negative mental tide Read something more inspiring. No.2 Write something, be it on your Instagram posts, Facebook posts, blogs, diary etc., Start writing your own thoughts No.3 Watch more stuff by native English speakers, be it news anchors, Netflix series. No.4 Listen to more audio materials especially when you are travelling. Your commuting time will be consumed which is otherwise getting wasted. No.5 As much as possible, wherever you get the opportunity, speak in English as much as you can, right! So, What is going to happen? Now, a very interesting and funny thing, a research is published stating that, After drinking alcohol, people are more comfortable in speaking foreign languages. Stop! Before you make any conclusion, I am not suggesting you to drink alcohol to improve your English language skills, But what happens is, Alcohol numbs down your barriers, brings your barriers down, reduces your self-consciousness So, this may be the reason that people in north India, start speaking english frequently after drinking alcohol in the evening. But jokes apart and this is a joke, not a serious suggestion, jokes apart When your self-consciousness will decrease, your ability to express yourself will improve. and your self consciousness will decrease through practise. So wherever you get an opportunity, wherever you get a chance, communicate more in English. This is going to improve your English language skills. And the last 2 steps are very important. Experiment and believe! What are the last 2 steps? No.1 is Experiment No.2 is Believe Experiment means, “Do not be afraid to make mistakes.” When you speak with your US counterparts, be willing to experiment with new words. If you have heard new words or you have heard about one of their festivals and you want to wish them, then do experiments with those words and believe in yourself while you are talking. Remove this belief from your mind that only your English language skills are being evaluated, No! Your computing skills, your technical skills, your experience, your vision, your creativity and many more things which they should value and they will, if you believe in yourself! So it is really very important. So once again let me just sum-up the question which was, “I am suffering from a heavy mother tongue influence, what should I do”? And my answer to that is “It is very natural because English is a foreign language, right!” It’s not a disease, don’t be too harsh on yourself, don’t be too hard on yourself and also believe in yourself, that this is not a big issue, There is so much more to your personality then just how you speak certain words. Don’t make this mistake my friends that often people commit to be fluent in English that is to put on an accent, that is speaking English words in the accent of other countries, without being comfortable with it, without having naturally experienced it. Just to appear hep or just to appear smart. Right! and that sounds fake and doesn’t impact that well. You will become a joke, which you don’t want too. So let it come to you naturally and through hard work, and in the meanwhile let me reassure,” You are good enough!” Just because you can’t speak a foreign language with 100% efficiency doesn’t mean that you are less than anyone else. and untill people of US, Australia, England and Britain who are the natives of those countries, can’t speak Hindi as frequently as you can, you are two steps ahead of them, not behind! Thank you, Bbie!

Comments (100)

  1. It's sad that he feels his accent is making him feel conscious where there are people from different parts of the world who have their accent they don't feel it . Make your self confident n good advice from the guru . I have lived in America for 40 yes I still have a Indian accent and I'm a proud Indian American . India gave me education and America has given me food on my plate . I am very grateful for this.Thats funny boss

  2. Yes sir your all answers were πŸ’―% right i also used to copy the British accent to improve my sound. But As you said… I will follow your suggestion from now untill we got perfection in our own accent thanks alot sir please makes some more video .

  3. Sir u have said to comments on a any blog,, my first comment on ur video,,, sir ur voice is so lovely,,those u have said is much a much correct

  4. Bakchodi bina kre direct point pe nai aata bc time west

  5. your lectures seems to be very relevant and practical must to be try to improve communication skill who wants to be.

  6. Sir if one student don't like study … so how we can make his mind

  7. Please make video on my question I will be very thankful

  8. Sir I am big fan and how to overcome with communication skills…

  9. You are my inspiration

  10. hey sir.i am came from Nepal.how to English commication is improve.my E-mail : [email protected]……

  11. Just one word "awesome"πŸ’•πŸ’•

  12. Hlw every one I'm ri8 now doing M.A by putting English as my honours..According to me English is not only Language it's also called Talent because of some one speak English fluently his personal unique in our society.insted of reading every day English newspaper …is there any one who wants to v my friend for practice daily English speaking…I'm from odisha..

  13. Very very very excellent vedio all English speaking course give me
    Thanks

  14. Mother tongue influence is never a problem in attaining proficiency in English. My personal experience is that if you are very good in your own mother tounge, reasonably good in its grammar and also are a well read person of literature in your mother tounge , it's a great asset in becoming proficient in english.

  15. I love your videos.. you are such an amazing person…whatever he says the method of learning language is absolutely correct.
    Reading, listening,writing is the only way to improve your English .. our confidence and interest should be developed for this.. if we are interested to learn we can learn anything…
    I learned Hindi just by continuous watching of Hindi movies and programs at the same time I took second language in plus two and degree level there by got perfection in Hindi language.

  16. Sir it is my Gmail id if u will text me on it after that I will ask question from u please sir g

  17. Sir it is my Gmail id if u will text me on it after that I will ask question from u please sir g

  18. Sir thanks fo giving your suggestion

  19. Hello sir, You are awesome🀩
    Thanks for giving us such a nice inspiration about a language I have proud on that
    Ki mein ek indian hu😊

  20. Very impressive video

  21. Good morning sir ,my name is Prateek kumar first year student of economics honours from galgoitas university greater noida ,sir I want to improve my vocabulary,and want to destroy my best villain that is hesitation , I had lot of feelings , but I became more hesitated ,sir I want to be good speaker

  22. sir your tricks are really work able thanks for gave really really nice video & i am also a big fan of yours

  23. In conclude that this the only solution in which we can overcome our English deficiencies, v nice sir,

  24. You right sir but i am no writing in english

  25. How can I attend your seminar ?

  26. Hello sir, I'm a Hindi medium student and I have a craze to communicate in English. I'm nervous when I talk those who know Hindi but I'm very confident to speak those who don't know Hindi like my Chinese colleague, British and American friend. And your videos are inspiring me to command not only in English but also in a vision.

  27. Sir ur voice too much good..πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ…and thank u so much for inspiring and motivating usπŸ™

  28. Sir,please suggest me that how I improve my confidence.

  29. Very nice video thanks sir for making such a great and motivating video

  30. Sir whenever I am listening your vedios it gives me an immense pleasure to never give up and gives me the ability to work more on my mistakes rather than to become pessimistic .Sir I don't have enough content to express my emotions about your work because it really appreciating that you are doing a commendable work in today's globalised world for the sake of mankind .

  31. Hello sir, I have a problem how can I solve it,i can speak English 80 percent,not 100 percent, I can't speak English front of people, how can I improve my English, what I do, please sir help me.

  32. The door is open.

  33. Hi sir I like ur vidio so much thank you so much for all doing for us

  34. Your thoughts are awesome

  35. Thanks for you sir

  36. Thank you for this video.

  37. Hello sir,
    I am your big fan.
    You motivate us in a such way, you have wonderful voice I like that.
    I like your videos…
    I want to say so much but I am not getting words to say, I just say you are amazing guy..πŸ‘

  38. Sir your vedio so nice i want talk to you because i can't speek in english my english is not very well i want to that how to speak

  39. Super thoughts Simarjeet…. Thanks for the video.

  40. how became a speaker

  41. Sir am so really big your fans and always respect youπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

  42. That's right ,hindi to hum bolte hi h, English vi sikh rhe h ,we r multitalented 😍

  43. Thanx so much,u r great πŸ‘Œ

  44. Thanks Sumirjeet for your excellent video…
    Could you please advise how to speak slowly, i generally speak fast which is effecting my career even though I am technically sound…
    Thank in advance πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘

  45. Thanks Sir. I need a friend for speaking English. Any one invited for…..9233688423

  46. Paa jee. Tussi really GREAT ho.

  47. Sir, in my life from childhood to till now , I found a lots of motivational speakers but from today you will be my best motivational speaker sir in my life and I will be fans of you. And lastly all of your videos will be remain constant in my playlist and gmail account because i am weak in English language , anyway lastly thank you so much sir. FROM MANIPUR, INDIA

  48. I am also big fan your,

  49. Sir my name is Sudhakar I am from Andhra Pradesh You are speaking very well but I couldn't understand well because I don't know Hindi

  50. Good to hear you and you have very awesome and clear voice ,one can easily understand what you are trying to explain…big fan of your voice

  51. It's really helpful sirπŸ‘

  52. Sir I want to ask you where will I get the job after getting fluent?

  53. Thanks sir for help

  54. You are absolutely right sir……
    I am really very proud of you….
    Thank you so much for making this video.
    God bless you

  55. Sir it's really my pleasure to listen you. You always motivated me and feel sparks from within lots of love to you

  56. Very helpful video sir

  57. Really appreciate you sir from the core of my β™₯…….

  58. How to start learning speak can u help me my fvrt language

  59. You also seem to me the one who determined to make right choice (the most powerful) out of many (on the mind) at every situation of life.
    You understood the engineering of the Creator (on self-development).
    Our great nation (India) needs people like you in every street to help the youth prioritize self-development over sick entertainment (when Bollywood/Hollywood imparts uncivilization).
    May God bless you to spread your success message, Ameen!

  60. Hi sir… i am big fan of you… can we be communication trainer without any academic qualification or without a degree

  61. 1.my name is Ramlakhan.
    2. I belong to Jhalokhar dis Hamirpur (U.P)
    3.I am pursuing B.sc 2nd year from Govt.P.G. college Kuchhechha Hamirpur.
    4. I have six members in my faimly.
    5. They are my parents my two sisters and two brothers.
    6.my father's name is Mr.Jagmohan.He is a mason.
    7.my mothers name is Mrs.RamRati.she is a house maker.
    8.I am hardworking.self motivated and dedicated to words my work.
    9.I like to play cricket.
    10.I am workaholic.
    ""My shart term goal is to get a job in reputed company and my long term goal is to be in respected position in that company.""

  62. Sir I am big fan of you I want u say something about your journey

  63. Sir I realy love your voice wish I can tlk like you god bless you sir

  64. Sir u r doing a very great work i'm very impress with ur

  65. Maza a gya
    U r really great sir

  66. Thank you for motivate me

  67. It is very nice and motivational video. I'm sure it is going to help me a lot to improve my speaking skills. Thank you so much, Sir

  68. Thank you so much sir…

  69. Wow wonderful video sir

  70. Basically I speak better sir but during conversation I fumble during some sentences
    How to over it permanently
    And when I speak then I don't translate just speak out that I want to say.
    Sharing the information with someone else while speaking in English then my my information contains weight but fumble during some sentences which may be easier to any speaker.
    It kills my fluency.

  71. MASHALLAH…your video really inspired us thanks

  72. My English is very veek so my job not permotion english not impruv. My problem english not a impruv. Sir please gaied english impruv tips

  73. It is really inspiration show

  74. Very good vedio so that I am impresse in your vedio so I am following your ruls

  75. Mujhe himmat milti hai aapko sun kar

  76. thanks sir Acche vichroo k liya zondgi mraste to bhoot milte Hain chlne m kadam dgmte h gte hai manzil h khoo gte hai

  77. Sir I am wactching ur video first time…mind blowing sirπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

  78. Is grammar necessary for speaking english

  79. Sir mai newspaper read karata hu par muze meaning samjata nahi kya karu

  80. I m proud of u sir b cose u tell right think Thank u so much

  81. Your voice
    Your personlity
    Your knowledge
    Your way of expressing your ideas
    i am glad!🀩❀#Your new fan sir!!

  82. You are best in englishπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

  83. Sir my problem is I always entangle while speaking English. I am very worried. Kindly suggest me

  84. Walekumassalam bro.

  85. Bahut badiya bhaa ji

  86. Sir while communicating, we look through eyes, we see some facial expressions of audience. And if they funny face expressions, but we want to be serious,
    Then how we should persue our seminar or other event.

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